Love work too often neglects the solid foundation of the Golden Rule. Passion and glitter WILL fade (NOT the same as loss of sexual interest!), and you should be left with a solid foundation of friendship. So start cultivating that from in front.
You probably shouldn’t be trying to fix Mr. Wrong. Team Edward or Team Jacob are just for entertainment. For real life, you want Team Martin or Team Fred or — you get the idea.
So here’s a True Love Affirmation for you:
“My ideal lover is heading straight for my door; his every step leads him closer to me, whether he knows it or not. I am and I have everything he wants. He is fair, sensitive, compassionate, gracious, and he knows how to have fifty million kinds of fun with the Golden Rule.”